tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post8755499586218335924..comments2024-02-13T05:21:26.676-06:00Comments on Spiritual Journey of a Lightworker: Memories, Disbelief And Self-DoubtPatricia Singletonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-12573391148372313012014-05-15T00:44:38.440-05:002014-05-15T00:44:38.440-05:00Suvarna, You are very welcome.Suvarna, You are very welcome.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-7483527499754283372014-05-13T17:17:53.141-05:002014-05-13T17:17:53.141-05:00thank you Patricia for these words of wisdom. it&#...thank you Patricia for these words of wisdom. it's jut what I need to hear.Suvarna Manjari Dasihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14324137829890523193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-6732355437472656032012-02-20T14:19:02.437-06:002012-02-20T14:19:02.437-06:00Pam, you are very welcome. I know the feeling of w...Pam, you are very welcome. I know the feeling of wanting it to be over. I wish the wanting was enough. It takes awhile to work through what we do remember without pressuring ourselves about what we don't remember. If and when your brain thinks you can deal with the memories, they will come. If it doesn't, there is nothing you can do to "make" yourself remember.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-73914853339130667272012-02-20T13:57:04.614-06:002012-02-20T13:57:04.614-06:00Pat, Thanks for telling me that. I think I've ...Pat, Thanks for telling me that. I think I've been feeling pressure about what I don't remember, thinking that it isn't over yet. I want it to be over.<br /><br />PamPamhttp://www.boomerback-beat.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-83025236776543183362012-02-16T21:17:46.774-06:002012-02-16T21:17:46.774-06:00Pam, remember that the shame belongs to the abuser...Pam, remember that the shame belongs to the abuser, not to the child that you were. Whatever you remember is okay. Whatever you don't remember is okay. Neither was your fault. I have 6 years of memories and still have memories from around age 2-3 that I don't remember. We can heal with or without the memories. That is what is important.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-67638390140815036692012-02-16T19:04:51.523-06:002012-02-16T19:04:51.523-06:00Hi Patricia,
There were so many memories that I w...Hi Patricia,<br /><br />There were so many memories that I was afraid to share and didn't share for decades. Now that I have shared them, I'm shocked to find how much I don't remember. I think deep down, I too ashamed to even share them with myself.<br /><br />PamPamhttp://www.boomerback-beat.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-79703915492630804242012-02-04T13:08:47.853-06:002012-02-04T13:08:47.853-06:00Jan, you are so very welcome. I had help from othe...Jan, you are so very welcome. I had help from others along the way too. It doesn't matter how slow or how quick we are on our journey as long as we are moving forward and you are. It is helpful having companions along the way.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-62750098764227342932012-02-04T12:03:44.583-06:002012-02-04T12:03:44.583-06:00Thank you Patricia, for being there for so many, a...Thank you Patricia, for being there for so many, and for your wisdom.<br /><br />This journey is slow, but I am getting there!<br /><br />Hugs<br /><br />JanBeyond Survivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13651923245154253074noreply@blogger.com