tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post2144531334630893011..comments2024-02-13T05:21:26.676-06:00Comments on Spiritual Journey of a Lightworker: Incest---86% Would Believe Their DaughtersPatricia Singletonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-31629674049865622282008-10-09T23:10:00.000-05:002008-10-09T23:10:00.000-05:00Mary, thanks for sharing your story. I always bel...Mary, thanks for sharing your story. I always believed that on some level my mom knew about the incest too. When I told her about the abuse, she denied knowing about it. I let it go at that. My mother was so shut down emotionally that she didn't "see" what was going on right in her own home because she couldn't deal with it. You can't see someone else's pain when you are in denial of your own pain.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-13115525356729078592008-10-09T22:15:00.000-05:002008-10-09T22:15:00.000-05:00I was always scared to tell my mother because I kn...I was always scared to tell my mother because I knew she wouldn't believe me, she would believe my dad because he was "such a good husband and father", well guess what, he wasnt. So now I have to live with it, and still wonder if I am right about my mother. <BR/><BR/>Me... I would believe my daughter because it takes courage to tell someone especially your other parent. take carel..Marynippercatshomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642367051111890861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-51069678806347866272008-10-09T00:45:00.000-05:002008-10-09T00:45:00.000-05:00Caroline, thanks for your comment and your belief ...Caroline, thanks for your comment and your belief in your daughter. I had probably 3 years of counseling behind me before I told my mom. My counseling was sitting beside me as support.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-54430482657386885742008-10-09T00:39:00.000-05:002008-10-09T00:39:00.000-05:00Marie, I agree with you that living in fear all th...Marie, I agree with you that living in fear all the time is the worst. Facing those fears the first time is the hardest.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-91308843913988600282008-10-08T21:11:00.000-05:002008-10-08T21:11:00.000-05:00Very powerful. I would believe my daughter 100%. ...Very powerful. I would believe my daughter 100%. I think it would take so much courage to tell someone of the abuse.Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16728003293487936449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7679672539901170150.post-31541619771728112982008-10-08T20:11:00.000-05:002008-10-08T20:11:00.000-05:00One of my biggest reasons for not telling was my f...One of my biggest reasons for not telling was my father. I was very scared of his reaction. It is a terrible thing to live in fear all the time.Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18433687145624416957noreply@blogger.com